Traffic Jams and Leadership Building


We did something different in cell group this week.  We didn't have our usual bible study.  In fact, we didn't crack a bible open at all.  (Before you grab the pitchforks, remember that "cell group" is not "bible study."   Though sometimes they go hand in hand, there is more to a cell group than just that. 

So this week we did a little stealth leadership training.   The weapon of choice was a nifty little game called "Traffic Jam."   Traffic Jam works like this:  you set up two groups of four, and line up nine chairs.   You seat each group at the end so it looks like this:

           A  B  C  D  [empty]   W X Y Z


Here are the rules.   Each group has to move to the opposide side.  Only one person can move at a time, and only to the next empty seat.  You can only "jump over" someone coming in the opposite direction, and only jump one person.   And no talking. 

They did accomplish it, eventually.  Then I laid some more rules on them:

You have to wind up in the same order you started, but on the opposite side.   And you have to accomplish it in 24 moves.  So really, they did not accomplish the desired result.

In other words, the result must be:

      W X Y Z  [empty]  A B C D
  
After 50 moves, they still could not do it.  So I told them that now they could talk.   There was a lot of yelling and ordering going on, but after 50 moves they still didn't accomplish much.

So I told them that they could select a leader, and only that leader could speak.   They got closer this time - a lot closer.  But still, no joy.

Then I told them that I would be their leader, and I would direct them.   Since I had the solution written down, it was easy - done in 24 moves exactly!  

One kid asked me - what was the point?    "I don't know." I said.  "What happened?"

First, there were no clear directions  - FAIL!!!

Then there were directions, but no communication  - FAIL!!!

Then there was communication, but no organization.  Just noise.  - FAIL!!!

Then there was organization, but no plan.   -- FAIL!!!

Finally, there was a leader with a vision, with authority, and with a plan   - SUCCESS!!!



What can your leadership team learn from this example???

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Cell October 2 - Rejection

Jacob has one of the most incredible stories in the entire Old Testament.  Born the younger of twin brothers, the Bible tells us he came out holding the heel of his older brother, Esau.  In fact, one meaning of Jacob's name is "leg-puller."   This has kind of a dual meaning, as it can be taken literally, or figuratively.  (A joker, a prankster.)  Another meaning is "supplanter" or "one who takes the place of."

While Esau was strong and rugged, Jacob was small and fair.  He preferred to spend time in the house with his mother.  This led to Esau becoming the favorite of their father, Isaac.  Jacob felt this rejection all his life.

Jacob was a trickster.  He once tricked Esau out of his birthright for a bowl of soup.  He also tricked Isaac (in Gen 27) into giving him Esau's blessing.  Now Esau was mad, and threatened to kill Jacob once Isaac had died.  Jacob, of course, ran away. 

He met his mother's brother Laban, and fell in love with his daughter Rachel.  Rachel was beautiful!  Laban also had an older daughter, Leah, who was not.  After having to work for seven years for Rachel's hand, Jacob was tricked into marrying Leah.  Eventually, he gained the right to marry Rachel as well. 

Now, Jacob himself rejected Leah, and she felt hated.  Jacob was showing her the same rejection that he had received! So God stepped in - He made it so only Leah could have children at first.



Jacob went through a lot in the next few years.  He tricked Laban out of some of his flock, and Laban grew angry as well.  Eventually Jacob left and wanted to go back home, but found out Esau was near, with an army of 400 men! Afraid, Jacob sent his family on, while he waited for Esau, and prayed to God.  Eventually, he met a strange man who wrestled with him all night.  Jacob demanded a blessing from the man, who told him from this day forth, he would be called Israel, which means "one who struggles with God."  That "man" was actually God's own angel!! Jacob named that place Peniel.

Jacob soon met Esau, who instead of trying to kill him, embraced his brother warmly.  Jacob grew old, and became one of the fathers of the Hebrews, and of Christianity. 

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Cell September 25 - Choices

This week, we had the same lesson in Cell as we did in KidzPort. So head on over there for the recap.

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KidzPort Revival is Coming!

This upcoming weekend will be the first ever Children's Revival Weekend at Gospel Light, and we are totally pumped!




  • We're having Studio-Z come down from Zion Bible College. Studio-Z is a great children's ministry that does worship ministry using music, drama, puppets, media and more. We are so excited to have them.

  • Sunday's service is going to be "KidzFriendly!" meaning that the whole service is going to be built around kids! Studio-Z will be leading worship, plus we will have a special speaker from Zion Bible College. Be sure to be there.

The weekend begins on Friday night with our weekly Cell groups - 7:15 in the KidzPort building. Sign in for Saturday starts at 9am. The program starts at 10am, and there will be a family celebration at 4pm.

Are you on Facebook? Let us know you're coming!!


Keep checking for more details. Oh, and EVERYONE is welcome!!!

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See You At the Pole




What is See You at the Pole?


See You at the Pole™ is a student-initiated, student organized, and student-led event. That means this is all about students meeting at their school flagpole to pray—for their school, friends teachers, government, and their nation. See You at the Pole™ is not a demonstration, political rally, nor a stand for or against anything.


SYATP has been tasking place the fourth Wednesday in September at schools all across the nation since 1990. This activity is perfectly legal - not only are student-led prayers not prohibited by the Constitution, they are actually protected by the First Amendment. The idea of "separation of church and state" prohibits state-mandated prayer - not student-led prayer.
This year's event will take place Wednesday, September 23.


If you are intersted in leading or participating in a SYATP event at your school, the best way to spread the word is by word-of-mouth. Tell and invite everyone you know. And be sure someone speaks with the school administration to let them know the event is taking place. If the administrator is relectant, do not argue. This event is about prayer, not legal rights. Move the event off school property, and let your pastor leader know so they can contact the administrator.


More information on See You At the Pole can be found here.


Will we see you there?


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Children's and Youth Congress

This weekend we will be attending the Children's and Youth Congress at House of Restoration in Hartford. No cell groups will meet.

The bus will leave at 5:30 on Friday night, and 6:30am on Saturday morning. Everyone who has signed up, please be on time.

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Schedule Updates for August

I just wanted to remind everyone of some upcoming events, as there will be no cell meetings for the rest of August.

Back to School Revivals are going to be held at Gospel Light on August 20, 21 and 23. There will be no cell on the 21st because of this, but everyone is encouraged to come hear Brian McDOnals speak.

Children's and Youth Congress is taking place on the 28th and 29th at the House of Restoration in Hartford. We will be signing people up to go, for ages 7 and up. We'll be taking the bus up Friday evening, and again on Saturday. I'll be handing out flyers on Sunday, August 23rd.

Children's Revival Weekend. will be happening on September 19th and 20th. Studio-Z from Zion Bible College will be helping us. The tentative schedule is 10am-5pm on Saturday, and will be continuing with the Sunday morning service. Keep checking for details, and invite everyone!!

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